- Already in a womb, a little growing body is seeking body identity; parent's thoughts of themselves influence him, and he adopts them. If the parents, underneath everything, relate to themselves negatively, it is transmitted to the little body because the little body does not have intellect, only the ability to receive and adopt. The body identity receives the information already in the womb: "I am not accepted, enough or worthy". When the baby is born, the body identity contains this information and the body starts acting according to this information. It is transmitted to everything in the baby, for everything co-operates with everything. The baby is reinforcing this information and receives confirmation for it. Near the baby are the parents and other adults and he is surrounded by the culture in which he was born. His personality develops during childhood, when the environment limits and sets its own values.

All this affects the child's conception of himself and he starts living this concept believing it is himself. Now, insecurity is born, for the child forgets his true self and loses the knowledge, craft and power living in him and starts looking for it outside of himself. In this way he is reinforcing the conception which his parents, other adults and the culture around him have created for him with their own lives, and with which he is identified. A personality structure like this is not very often aware of its own abilities and therefore cannot use them. It is not aware of its own power and cannot use it. It is not aware of the infinite information living in the person; he is looking for all this outside of himself, when problems and contradictions arise. In this way he grows up to be an adult who is unable to love himself and who feels inadequate. A vast amount of energy is used to hide this feeling, to denial and to building habits with the help of which he can feel adequate. So, when working life suddenly ends, the individual experiences a complete mental breakdown and eventually a physical breakdown as well which, at its most extreme, can lead to the ending of one's own life. It all is a consequence of the information in his body identity: "I am not worthy, accepted or enough and I don't have the right to exist as myself". The person has replaced this information with action and has made a substitute of work with the help of which he feels adequate; he lives with the help of this substitute. When it ends, all that is left is reality which has not changed, for a substitute  never changes anything. The same original state is left because one has not intervened in reality. Because the information of the body identity is his parent's information and the truth about themselves, it can be undone and the real truth and knowledge of what man himself truly is can be found.

One can judge and invalidate oneself in so many ways but whichever way it is, it leads to insecurity. The individual does not dare to progress because he demands perfection of himself. Invalidation includes the pursuit of perfection, for you have to be perfect immediately, you have to know and be able immediately and you cannot forgive yourself if you does not succeed immediately. Now the person cannot progress for he cannot give himself a permission for it. This results in a painful dichotomy, for, underneath everything, the individual wants to progress and is able to progress but he invalidates himself and the matter in question. He explains to himself in ten different ways why it is not good thing, why it does not serve, why it is nothing at all and not worth trying. With this explanation, the person is trying to reach peace of mind and make the pain and anxiety disappear.

The individual would not have learned to walk, talk, read or write if he had thought like this as a child. He would have taken the first step, and someone would have run past him instantly. The child would have thought: "I can't do this. That one can already run and I fell down right away. I couldn't even stand on my feet! What are they thinking; did they see that I fell? Surely everybody saw. You got to be able to stay up with the first step and with the second you have to spring forward! If I can't do this, I'm nothing!" If the child thought like this, judging and invalidating himself and demanding perfection which does not exist, he would not walk, talk, read or write.

But this is how it is meant to be, for every individual, when born as a human being into his own body, is full aware of what kind of a body identity he is going to be formed in childhood. It is a fully conscious choice because the individual is aware of what kind of problems are going to come in his life through this personality structure. Every individual will meet his own limits through his personality in his own way at some point in his life. Then a phase begins where one can, through the pain caused by his problems, get the power to take his life back to himself and start moving towards reality, or what he truly is. The problem turns into a possibility, and man builds strength in himself moving towards himself and is fulfilling his own life cycle and his plan in this way.