Sexuality 

- Today I would like to talk to you about what sexuality is but remember that words are merely symbolism. Do not focus on wordings as such but only concentrate on listening and hearing. Then you will not listen to the order of letters in a word but you listen with your own energy to the energy that is behind the words. In this way it creates knowledge in you which at that moment is the truth for you. In this way you also realize inside what I want to say. Only man's mind or intellect discerns, analyzes and chops everything in parts; through intellect, man is never able to see the whole but only a part at a time. To see, perceive and comprehend the whole lives on an entirely different level which contains emotions, senses and the so called creative madness. I want to help you approach, open, experience and feel this field and get it for use fully, along with the intellect, when you get behind all these levels to your true existence. Then you also realize that there is nothing separate in you but all the parts are connected with one another. They are interlaced with one another and form an entity where they affect one another.

Sexuality lives always in man, for it is an instinct programmed in the body of man and animals which sustains life and enables the continuity of the species and lineage. Without this experience in the body, there would be no procreation or the need to procreate. In addition to the continuity of life and the species, sexuality is also so much else, so much else. Originally, sexuality has had a very deep meaning, much like meditation but in your world, it has a multitude of other meanings. In your world, there is the commercial form where sexuality is used to produce well-being to some people and income to other people. It is also used as a substitute or an escape route for one's own states and needs, when man is running away from himself with his sexuality. Besides, there is a way of thinking where sexuality is denied and it is only seen as a way of procreating.

Every nation's basic need to exist has produced a way to relate to sexuality which is in accordance with their norm. However, everyone in your society is a personality who has his own needs and preferences, just as people have a different relation, say, to literature, television, nature or nutrition. If, instead of sexuality, we were discussing, for example, politics, there would always be people who would, to the point of fanaticism, have an opinion on things according to their own need system. Sexuality is only a thing among other things: how a person relates to it, depends on his personality. The only difference sexuality has is the fact that the inner structure of your society finds it embarrassing and secret. The difference between politics and sexuality in your society is that politics is public action in which everyone can participate; whereas sexuality is always a very personal thing to everyone, when it is considered embarrassing and secret.

It is not easy to talk about sexuality for it is not outside of man but touches him very deep inside. It is always very difficult to man to relate to personal and intimate things, for it requires some degree of self-knowledge and self-acceptance from him. Then it is easy for man to discuss the matter, when also all kind of fanaticism and blaming go away. Then the matter is discussed to the point. Sexuality is also a way with the help of which man can experience himself more extensively and more many-sidedly, for sexual-energy is man's basic energy which in its own way maintains man's overall well-being in his body. In sexuality, there is pleasure, joy and sensitivity as well as the ability to create things. The more blockages there are in man, the more there are energy interruptions and energy shortage in him because organs do not get a sufficient amount of nutrition. The energy is not circulating in man's body which leads to various illnesses, and because of which people also very often complain about tiredness and lack of energy.

Everyone has a possibility to be aware of sexuality, eroticism and the fundamental energy in himself and be glad about the fact that one is aware of himself as an erotic being and one is able to enjoy it. It all brings self-knowledge which brings with it joy and the ability to feel and enjoy one's existence. It also brings with it self-acceptance and true power and true peace. Then also true love for oneself and other forms of life is born which is the universal state of your existence: the ability to form a true friendship and a love affair, the ability to forms a true connection with another form of life, whether it be a human being, a tree, a plant, a stone, an animal, wind, warmth, fire, anything. Then it is also possible to experience open communication which functions in reality and is free from illusions. Then it is an open state of perfect experiencing: the state of receiving and giving, in which true knowledge and truth live.

It is also the ability to see the moment as it is with all its nuances, and the ability to choose from the basis of reality. Furthermore, it is an ability to influence in that moment, and the ability to bring out from oneself at that very moment the thing or state that is needed in it. It is also the ability to take for oneself in the moment that which the moment can give, and the ability to give from oneself that which is appropriate to be given to this moment. It is the ability not to assess and judge, not to think about and analyze oneself with the help of the intellect, for the intellect always close and brings along the feeling of insecurity. Each moment of your life is endless interaction everywhere, whether you are aware of it or not.

I wish that you would think about how and in what way you experience your sexuality. Is it self-denying or self-loving? Are there denials and self-hate inside you or joy, enjoyment and love for yourself? There are many ways to think about sexuality but this is my view: A person who loves himself and wants to get acquainted with himself is also aware of his own sexuality. He is aware of how he experiences sexuality and what sexuality means to him in that phase of life. Every human being is erotic, whether he has a sex partner or not, and when he is aware of his own eroticism, it is already joy and enjoyment in itself. It is love and perfect self-acceptance, for in eroticism live beauty and "creative madness" which bring to man's life holistic joy and enjoyment very intensely. "Creative madness" is also very strong sensitivity, and when man gives a permission to it, he also gives himself a permission to become sensitive, for creative madness is man's ability to know and love himself holistically. Sexuality is man's ability, also alone, to get closer to himself, to that experience which is the primeval experience. For when man fondles himself and is aware of himself in this field, it is, at its best, like meditation. Then man can, with a partner or by himself, be aware of the love, acceptance and peace inherent in it. He can open up to the erotic part in himself and return to his primeval experience, that state which is universal unity.

When man is aware of himself more broadly and more many-sidedly, he gets into himself more deeply through every field in him. He then realizes what he truly is, what there truly is in him, what he is truly experiencing and thinking in every field of his. Balance and love for oneself are found through being aware of and accepting every field. Each of you is a beautiful and erotic individual, and realizing it is, at its best, like meditation, a connection to one's true self. It is only about whether man can see the beauty of this part in himself or not. It also is a totally different thing if man uses his eroticism to something else than being aware of himself and loving himself, when he is using it according to his own experience and mind. It is up to man's own attitude and will how he wants to experience and see himself in this field.


You can read in my book Happiness Is Life Itself, what Uranus tells about following topics:

• sex addiction
• childlessness
• how hysterectomy affects womanhood